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I find your lack of faith disturbing
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I struggle badly with mental health issues , I'm creating this thread for everyone like me , this is a space to discuss it , no judgemental people allowed
If you need to chat send me a DM. I sometimes am an asshole but I'm here if you need someone to talk to.
 
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It's all good I just thought I'd set this thread up for everyone like me if they wanted an outlet
I made a post a year back basically stating the same thing as you did: if anyone needs to chat with someone or is having issues, they are more than welcome to chat with me.

I do suffer from things like depression, anxiety etc etc and know what it feels like to feel, completely down.

I generally try to keep things positive on the forums, it's completely different from the way I live my life, but it is what it is.

I have stated this before: forums like this let me keep my sanity. I like having banter; that's why I try to have a laugh with a lot of people; it keeps my mind off a lot of stuff.

Although some people probably think i am being mean or an arse to them, but that is further from the truth.

So yes, if anyone needs to chat, I am here to help, or maybe it makes things worse, lol.

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Do you own a pet.

I've seen lonely adults struggled with mental health get better with a pet, dogs, cats, hamsters, parrots, or @Sircaw kins, for that buy some mud.
 

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Well it is Sunday and I am all here for you to talk shit buddy, and maybe helping my darling daughter study

She gonna have final exam in 4 days and there is a very very big chance she gonna repeat a grade. Well I don't think that retarded kid deserves going to high school nor passing the entrance exam but god, fuck my life.
 
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Well it is Sunday and I am all here for you to talk shit buddy, and maybe helping my darling daughter study

She gonna have final exam in 4 days and there is a very very big chance she gonna repeat a grade. Well I don't think that retarded kid deserves going to high school nor passing the entrance exam but god, fuck my life.
It's Saturday night & bit harsh calling your daughter retarded lol
 

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Do you own a pet.

I've seen lonely adults struggled with mental health get better with a pet, dogs, cats, hamsters, parrots, or @Sircaw kins, for that buy some mud.
The place where i live can't have pets, well besides my fish tank.

I miss the dogs I had when I lived in Africa; The Rhodesian Ridgeback was simply the best pet I ever had.
 
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Dont lie, it was a cat and you know it
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I became depressed in college. I’ve never returned to normalcy afterwards… I’m better now but I’ve learned depression is not a phase. I let my negative thoughts leak into my behavior and attitude. I hated my school, hated my (now ex) girlfriend, hated how hard life felt. It may sound cringe but I got terrified when, even my favorite hobby, gaming, wasn’t something I enjoyed anymore.

It’s been 6 years since then, it ebbs and flows still. But with time I promise you it can be tamed. I try to look at myself and improve, so that less things make me sad. I try and stay active in my hobbies, make sure my work is progressing, and treat my friends, family and gf with utmost care.

Try not to be discouraged by any plight your life is subjected to. We are incredibly lucky to get to live this life as we do, no matter how horrible you may have it. Making the most of it, is far better than resenting it. These words are what help me… wishing every one in this thread peace of mind.
 
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I became depressed in college. I’ve never returned to normalcy afterwards… I’m better now but I’ve learned depression is not a phase. I let my negative thoughts leak into my behavior and attitude. I hated my school, hated my (now ex) girlfriend, hated how hard life felt. It may sound cringe but I got terrified when, even my favorite hobby, gaming, wasn’t something I enjoyed anymore.

It’s been 6 years since then, it ebbs and flows still. But with time I promise you it can be tamed. I try to look at myself and improve, so that less things make me sad. I try and stay active in my hobbies, make sure my work is progressing, and treat my friends, family and gf with utmost care.

Try not to be discouraged by any plight your life is subjected to. We are incredibly lucky to get to live this life as we do, no matter how horrible you may have it. Making the most of it, is far better than resenting it. These words are what help me… wishing every one in this thread peace of mind.
I'll share my story
 
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I had a good life with my family but I was heavily bullied in school for my small skinny statute & glasses , was also beaten up for no reason other than I was an easy target since I never stook up for myself ,but I still kept a happy facade , when I was around 16 I got depression & I've suffered from it ever since , I've always had anxiety but it got really really bad in 2019 or 2020 , I remember suddenly having a high pitched noise in my ear (I've already got tinnitus) & at the same time my chest feel like it was sinking I couldn't get rid if the horrible feeling it was a panic attack that lasted months & even though I feel better than I did then I'll never feel the same as I did before
 
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I had a good life with my family but I was heavily bullied in school for my small skinny statute & glasses , was also beaten up for no reason other than I was an easy target since I never stook up for myself ,but I still kept a happy facade , when I was around 16 I got depression & I've suffered from it ever since , I've always had anxiety but it got really really bad in 2019 or 2020 , I remember suddenly having a high pitched noise in my ear (I've already got tinnitus) & at the same time my chest feel like it was sinking I couldn't get rid if the horrible feeling it was a panic attack that lasted months & even though I feel better than I did then I'll never feel the same as I did before
& All I do is wait for the weekend because then I can drink
 

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I had a good life with my family but I was heavily bullied in school for my small skinny statute & glasses , was also beaten up for no reason other than I was an easy target since I never stook up for myself ,but I still kept a happy facade , when I was around 16 I got depression & I've suffered from it ever since , I've always had anxiety but it got really really bad in 2019 or 2020 , I remember suddenly having a high pitched noise in my ear (I've already got tinnitus) & at the same time my chest feel like it was sinking I couldn't get rid if the horrible feeling it was a panic attack that lasted months & even though I feel better than I did then I'll never feel the same as I did before

You look so sweet (no homo) I wasn't sure if you were trans 😄

Fuck the drinking and stop being a beta male, depression is not real. As men we do go through tough times but we cannot allow those tough times to consume us. Are you working out? are you exercising? Daily exercise for a man is essential it keeps the demons away and it strengthens our soul. Every two days I run five miles i hate doing it, I wake up at 3:50am in the morning and I'm out the house by half 4 regardless of the weather, tomorrow it will be pissing down and I'm looking forward to it.

I came across this video and it really made me think I think you should watch it

I would also tell you to find the Lord but some people don't believe in that, they don't believe somebody created this amazing specimen we call a body But I believe it also helps strengthen our inner power. Also do some BJJ you will love it.

"Iron sharpens iron and one man sharpens another"
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You look so sweet (no homo) I wasn't sure if you were trans 😄

Fuck the drinking and stop being a beta male, depression is not real. As men we do go through tough times but we cannot allow those tough times to consume us. Are you working out? are you exercising? Daily exercise for a man is essential it keeps the demons away and it strengthens our soul. Every two days I run five miles i hate doing it, I wake up at 3:50am in the morning and I'm out the house by half 4 regardless of the weather, tomorrow it will be pissing down and I'm looking forward to it.

I came across this video and it really made me think I think you should watch it

I would also tell you to find the Lord but some people don't believe in that, they don't believe somebody created this amazing specimen we call a body But I believe it also helps strengthen our inner power. Also do some BJJ you will love it.

"Iron sharpens iron and one man sharpens another"
Carl Weathers Friendship GIF
I'm not trans , I get that alot online lol , I just have a baby face & don't look very masculine, thanks for the kind words , what's that gif from ?
 

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I'm not trans , I get that alot online lol , I just have a baby face & don't look very masculine, thanks for the kind words , what's that gif from ?

If you knew that gif was from it would boost your testosterone and help you look a little more masculine. Are you sure you want to know?

It's wild when you think about it there are a lot of males that did not grow up watching masculine films they were raised on movies that lower their testosterone instead of increasing it.
 
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If you knew that gif was from it would boost your testosterone and help you look a little more masculine. Are you sure you want to know?

It's wild when you think about it there are a lot of males that did not grow up watching masculine films they were raised on movies that lower their testosterone instead of increasing it.
Well the black guy looks like Apollo creed from Rocky & the white guy is obviously the terminator, movies don't make your features more masculine 😂
 

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Well the black guy looks like Apollo creed from Rocky & the white guy is obviously the terminator, movies don't make your features more masculine 😂
Trust me i could give you a list of 15 movies to watch and by June 1st You would have a chiselled jaw, hair on your chest and balls the size of coconuts. You would be dripping in testosterone.

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