As someone who had both and kept the Quest 3, I disagree. Pancake lenses are better then fresnel. The OLED didnt wow me as much as I thought. So I made a decision based on pros and cons. PSVR2 was the victim. Since both have foveated rendering, this wasnt a deciding factor.it really sucks that the controllers can only use bluetooth ...
Fresnel hate is overrated, the OLED more than makes up for it and overall picture quality is still better than the Q3....
The deciding factor was the portability of the Quest. You can put it in a bag and take it with you and play. PSVR2 is missing this huge advantage.