Not sure what you mean by this. My desktop is very responsive with Windows 11, and doesn't prompt me to upgrade every day. Perhaps you're on Windows 10 or below? My mac, on the other hand, has a "false" update stuck, meaning there's actually nothing to install but I get a daily pop up
Next OS will probably be ZorinOS, absolutely fantastic, beats both Windows and Mac in usability and smoothness.
That said, Tim Cook is definitely losing money, we should look at the great minds in internet forums to educate him.