BG3 has hot chicks as romanceable companions and there's no "top surgery scars" in the character creator which ended up being the straw that broke the camel's back for many people. Also, the characters aren't all fugly with giant heads and you can create a character with large boobs and ass. Unlike all the other studios, Larian never demonized the male gaze in any of their previous games, and BG3 isn't an exception.
This is one of the wives you can choose from, in Divinity Dragon Commander.
Veilguard's character creation tool is simply a self-insertion of the game's director, a trans woman. It was also claimed by them to be the most queer Dragon Age game ever, so expect the ridiculous character creation tool to be just scratching the surface on how inclusive this game is going to be. It'll be nothing like Baldur's Gate 3.