In Sony games you are the character and feels like living it.Live in it isn't a thing in Sony's games, live in it is something that you get from games like Half Life.
In Sony's games you don't feel you're part of the world they build, instead you feel like a spectator watching a movie.
If you play games like Half Life, or Metroid Prime, you ARE the character.
I mean there is no way to play TLOU or Uncharted and doesn’t feel you are Joel or Nathan.