The -SJW- ones who demand or make these changes don't make them what they are: ugly. They call them non-sexualized, lgtb (or trans specifically) friendly characters.
Which I think it's dumb because first there is nothing wrong with sexy and attractive characters (or sex), and to make a character uglier, to make their body more androginous doesn't make it lgtb or trans friendly, it only makes it uglier and less attractive and charismatic to everyone. I think most LGBT, and particularly trans love attractive people, like everyone else.
In fact gays around me and their friends always took more effort and valued more being good looking than the hetero ones. They are also big fans of the prettier, flashier females. And well, same goes with lesbians.
Historically the best performing and favorite art of the vast majority featured very healty, attractive, young adults. Subconsciously the ones who would be fertile and would provide healty/"better" kids. They were the reference for their audience, who wanted to be like them or liked them.
It's only the woke cult, who hate males, white or hetero people mixed with elite supporting all this who also wants to reduce population and making dumber (to ensure there are less people capable to kick them away from the throne) and want to see the lower class fighting each other instead of fighting upper classes. No artist wants to make unattractive, uncharismatic, unappealing characters unless brainwashed by this cult or forced by their bosses/their woke censorship department (call it "diversity council" or whatever)/afraid of being cancelled.
Regarding "this character isn't realistic"/"people feels unconfortable or can't identify with this character because looks too good" I think it's a very bad take because characters are often power fantasies or beauty ideals (and whatever the woke cult say there is absolutely nothing wrong with both of them) in the same way that were the superheroes from decades ago, the paintings from the middle age or the scultures from the middle age.